Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Lesson 8: The New You- Walking in His Love and Light

After doing the lesson, I decided to try and assimilate the information a little more thoroughly, as it felt like quite a lot of material to process. As I diagrammed the text, I began to see three categories woven into the text. I found these three categories to be very helpful in processing the information, and I hope you will as well. Speech, Behavior toward one another and Private life (or mind). Listed below are the charts we wrote out in class. The blue words are the Strongs and Vines descriptions.

SPEECH

OLD SELF
Talking filthy (5:4) Obscenity
Silly talk (5:4) Foolish
Coarse Jesting (5:4) Grossly or obscenely abusive; vulgar or indecent speech
Unwholesome words (4:29) Literal: rotten, putrid  Figurative: corrupt, foul
Speak whenever/ whatever (4:29)
Falsehood (4:25)
Lying  (4:25; Col.3:9)

New Self
Guard your mouth (4:29)
Only edifying and gracious speech, at appropriate times (4:29)
Gives grace to the hearers (4:29) Affords joy, pleasure, delight, sweetness, charm, loveliness
No lies (4:25; Col.3:9)
Speak (holding to or walking in) truth each one of you with his neighbor
Don’t talk about lewd behavior (5:4)
Giving thanks. (5:4) V: to give freely; gratitude
Not deceived by empty words (5:6) Empty: devoid of truth

BEHAVIOR TOWARD ONE ANOTHER
Old Self
Callous (4:19,32) Cease to feel pain or grief; apathetic
Sensuality (4:19) Unbridled Lust
Lusts of deceit (4:22) 
Immorality (5:3,5) Illicit sex; idol worship
Impurity (5:3,5) Unclean thoughts & life
Greed (5:3)
Coarse Jesting (5:4)
Covetous  = idolater (5:5)
Angry with sin (4:26)
Holds a grudge (4:26)
Gives the devil (means slanderer) an opportunity (4:27)
Thief (4:28)
Lazy (4:28)
Selfish (4:28)
Anger (4:31) Agitation of the soul, violent emotion exhibiting punishment
Wrath (4:31) Outburst of the moment; passionate anger, heat, boiling anger that subsides and comes up again (like a                            rolling boil)
Bitterness (4:31) Bitter root, hatred. Aristotle describes it as “the resentful spirit that refuses reconciliation”
Clamor  Outcry: imitating a raven's cry
Slander Speech damaging another's name
Malice (4:31) Ill will, desire to injure
Unkind (4:32)
Unforgiving (4:32)

New Self
Be imitators of God, as beloved children (5:1)
Self-sacrificing (5:1) Gave up self
Steal no longer (4:28)
Hard-worker (4:28) Labor even to the point of exhaustion
Share with those in need.
Angry without sin (4:26)
Does not hold a grudge (4:26)
Do not give the devil an opportunity (4:27)
Put away from bitterness, wrath, anger and malice from you (4:31)
Kind to one another (4:32) Pleasant, benevolent
Tender-hearted to one another Compassionate
Forgive each other like Christ (4:32)

PRIVATE LIFE (MIND)
Old Self            
Futile mind (4:17)
Darkened understanding (4:18)                
Excluded from the life of God (4:18)
Ignorant (4:18)
Callous (4:19)
Full of sensuality (4:19) Sexual excess and lack of restraint
Corrupted with lusts of deceit (4:22) Craving Deceit
Immoral (5:3,5)
Impure (5:3,5)
Greedy (5:3)
Bitter (4:31)
Full of wrath (4:31)
Participates in deeds of Darkness (5:8,11) in secret (5:12)
Deceived by empty words (5:6) Void of truth, indicates hollowness of something or someone
Grieve the Holy Spirit of God (4:30)
Living to sin (Rom. 6:2)
Enslaved to sin (Rom. 6:6)

New Self
Be renewed in the spirit of your mind (4:23)
Lay aside old self (4:22; Col. 3:9)
Put on new self (4:24; Col. 3:9)
·       Created in the likeness of  God
·       Created in righteousness
·       Created in the holiness of the truth
Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God by who you were sealed for the day of redemption (4:30)
Dead to sin (Rom. 6:2,11)
Walk in newness of life (Rom.6:4) V: Life of a new quality
Free from sin (Rom. 6:6-7) 
Alive to God in Christ Jesus (Rom. 6:11)
Renewed in knowledge after the image of it’s Creator (Col.3:10)

In preparing for this lesson, a quote that I read that has really stuck with me was this, "Jesus isn't merely added to our old life - He becomes our new life." The old man really is filled with lies and enslavement to sin, but the new man is filled with truth and is set free from sin with his mind renewed.


Monday, November 4, 2013

Lesson 7b: Network Spiritual Gifts Assessment


Thanks to Lucia for taking notes during Kim's teaching! Below are the basics of what we talked about in class, but feel free to email Kim or Mel if you have more questions.

Scripture: 1 Peter 4:11 & Eph. 4:11-12
Question: According to the scriptures above, what are the reasons that we serve?
·      God be praised/glorified
·      Equipping of the saints to build up the body
Servant Profile
Spiritual Gifts
What you do best
COMPETENT
Personal Style
How you best serve
CONFIDENT
Ministry Passion
Where you best serve
MOTIVATED

Break into groups:
~share your primary gift and share a caution regarding your primary gift


Servant vs. Servility

Servanthood with love
Servility with love
Serves out of…
Desire “I want to…”
Obligation “I have to…”
Motivated by
What God sees
“audience of one”
What others see
“to please others”
Has attitude of
Whatever it takes, “go beyond expectations”
It’s not my job, “doing the minimum”
Results are
God glorifying
Self seeking

Personal Style Checks:
Scripture: Psalm 139:13-16
~God has knit us together the way He wants us to be.
Pg. 108 (handout)
~answer questions 1-7 on page 108-109 and come up with total and graph it on page 111
People vs Task oriented defined: (Both unstructured and structured value being organized)
Unstructured –put into piles 
Structured –put into files
Task Unstructured – general guidelines, versatile
Task Structured – get job done, focus on results
People Unstructured – very conversational, flexible
People Structured – project warmth, relates well with others
Ministry Passion – feelings or desires that motivate you to serve in a particular ministry.
Scripture: Phil 2:3 & Psalm 37:3-4
Ministry Passion Assessment (packet page 125)
~work on pages 124-127
Break into groups and discuss page 136 and help others see where they can plug into the body of Christ.